The first cultural lesson in a Montessori classroom is about living and non-living. Young children in this environment learn to identify food, water, and air as some of the basic needs of living things. We can live without food for a couple of weeks, without water for a few days, but without air for a few minutes only. But most of us live very unaware of our breath. Yet the breath is one of our most powerful tools for physical and emotional well-being.
Science has proven that the shorter our breaths are, the more restless, nervous, or anxious we become. The longer and deeper our breaths are the calmer and more balanced we are emotionally. However, people using their breath consciously are mostly women in labor or highly trained athletes preparing for or at a competition. Most everybody else is purely on automatic with their breathing. This works well as long as we do physically challenging work. Yet, when we sit at a desk, our breath is usually flat. When stressful situations occur, we do not physically engage in a fight or run away, but the instead, the energy which is ready to be released gets suppressed and leads to all kinds of stress symptoms such as sweaty hands, headaches, muscles tightness, fatigue or even all sorts of pain. Many of us waste precious energy feeling stressed, just because we don’t know any better. We need training to become more aware and take the time to inhale and exhale deeply and fully.
Yoga therapist Mukunda Stiles quotes Yoda from the Star Wars movies to explain the importance of the breath as it is transformed into life energy. In yogic terms this energy is called prana and can be linked to the transformed energy, called the Force, in Star Wars. Wouldn’t we all like to have access to the Force? In yoga, breathing well is one of the keys to unlock transformation. Breathing techniques can be calming or stimulating, cooling or warming. Depending on our needs we can choose the one which helps us best.
After experiencing how difficult it is to take a full breath while sitting in a slumped position, children easily understand the importance of sitting with the spine nicely elongated. If they sit in a hunched over position all the time, sitting tall may not feel comfortable at first, because the muscles which are stretched in this position may never have been extended. But for a healthy spine and healthy body, good posture is essential and usually quickly learned.
Children learn that whenever they take long deep breaths they become calmer, more focused and alert, and can thus increase their performance. Children want to do well and will use helpful techniques, once they have experienced their benefits. Whether it is to get over test anxiety or the fear of an asthma attack, just to name a few examples, I have seen children use breathing techniques on their own to get control over their feelings and mind set. Instead of feeling afraid, they feel empowered!
Breathing is no-cost preventative medicine. What’s more, it is at everybody’s disposal all the time. All that’s needed is awareness.


